Some have interpreted 1 Timothy 2:12, in which Paul says, “But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man”, to mean that women should not teach or hold positions of authority in the church. However, this is a mistranslation. The Greek word that is often interpreted “man” in this passage is the same word that is interpreted “husband” in Ephesians 5:22. The word can be translated either way depending on the context. Since the next two verses discuss Adam and Eve, the first marriage, and the rearing of children, the clear context is marriage and family rather than church structure. The verse should say that a woman should not exercise authority over her “husband”, which is how Young’s Literal Translation and some other translations translate it. This translation is consistent with the rest of scripture.

 

Women are shown teaching, prophesying, or exercising authority many places in scripture. For example, Aaron’s sister Miriam (Ex 15:20), Huldah (2 Kings 22:14), Anna (Luke 2:36), and the four daughters of Philip (Acts 21:9) are all called prophetesses. Paul permitted women to prophesy in church (1 Corinthians 11:5). Debra was a political and military leader in Israel (Judges 4). Phoebe was a deacon (Romans 16:1). And Junia was an apostle (Romans 16:7).

 

Furthermore, God chose a woman to be the first witness of His resurrection (John 20:14) and He chose a woman to become the first European convert (Acts 16:14). Also, from the very beginning of scripture (Genesis 1:28), God gave both men and women authority to rule over the earth. And at the end of scripture (e.g. Revelation 20:4), there is no differentiation between men and women when redeemed saints are given authority over the earth.

 

What About 1 Corinthians 14:34-35?

1 Corinthians 14:34-35 says:

 

“The women are to keep silent in the churches; for they are not permitted to speak, but are to subject themselves, just as the Law also says. If they desire to learn anything, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is improper for a woman to speak in church.”

 

This passage in isolation plainly states that women must keep silent in church. However, an accurate interpretation requires accounting for three important contextual points.

 

First, the clear context is keeping order in the church while practicing the gift of prophecy (see 1 Corinthians 14:31-33, 39-40). This point by itself could suggest that Paul’s statement only applies to portions of a service devoted to prophecy. However, even this narrow application is too broad, as we are about to see.

 

Second, Paul explicitly stated that women can prophesy in church only minutes earlier in the same letter (1 Corinthians 11:5). Even atheists and liberal scholars agree that the apostle Paul was an intelligent man. So, if it appears as though Paul repeatedly contradicted himself in the span of a few minutes, that should prompt us to look more closely.     

 

Third, as with 1 Timothy 2:12, the words translated women/woman can also be translated wives/wife. And they most likely should be translated as such since verse 35 presumes all the women being addressed have husbands.  

 

I am generally wary of re-interpreting passages in light of historical context because sometimes this approach is used to dismiss what the passage plainly says. However, since Paul already stated that women can indeed prophesy in church, and since we have so many aforementioned examples of women occupying the offices of prophet, apostle, deacon, and other positions of authority, in this case the historical context may well be valuable. As it turns out, many theologians believe that wives in the Corinthian congregation were contributing to an atmosphere of chaos by speaking out of turn during the practice of spiritual gifts. This would explain Corinthians 14:34-35’s contextual placement and its apparent contradiction with Paul’s earlier statement.

 

Women, Authority, and Wisdom

Relationships are the most valuable things in the universe. Women possess an innate appreciation for this truth since they are more relational by nature. This equips them to be entrusted with enormous amounts of spiritual authority if they also learn to assimilate the godly pursuits that come more naturally to men, such as building, protecting, and respect for hierarchy.

 

Stewarding authority has a lot to do with wisdom. There seems to be a special connection in the Bible between women and wisdom. It was the desire for wisdom, pursued in a forbidden way, which caused Eve to disobey in the garden (Genesis 3:6). Also, in the book of Proverbs, a book all about wisdom, wisdom is personified as a woman (chapters 3-4, 8-9) and it culminates with a woman (chapter 31).

 

It is important to recognize that marriage is the only context where headship and submission apply. The Bible does not say that every man is the head of every woman. A woman can be a church leader, a president, or a CEO. She can have authority over countless people. The only thing a woman can never be is the head of her husband.

 

This is because authority that bears spiritual fruit requires grace from God. Therefore, it doesn’t matter how gifted or talented of a leader a woman is; she still does not have grace to be the head of her husband. Nor does it matter how much her husband prefers to follow; he does have grace to be the head if he chooses to believe God for it.

 

If a woman stewards authority over other people, like a CEO or a church leader does, it does not mean she is answerable to her husband for how she operates in those roles. He can counsel her and pray for her, but the authority is hers, not his. A husband’s position as the head only gives him authority in the area of their marriage and family. There may be some overlap between her family life and her other roles, but God can give couples wisdom to navigate through unclear areas when they ask Him for it. Headship and submission can look different in every marriage. God gives grace for each couple to apply His word to their unique relationship, personalities, and circumstances.